Memory & Redemption

Reflections on Jewish life from within

  • Home
  • About Yael Shahar
    • Yael Shahar – Author bio
    • Becoming a Different Yael Shahar
    • The Revival of the Dead: A personal journey
    • Writing as Self-Transformation: Kasva Press interviews Yael Shahar
    • Book a speaking engagement, lecture, or interactive workshop
    • Contact Yael Shahar
  • For Book Clubs & Educators
    • Resources for Book Clubs & Educators
    • About the Book
    • Reader’s guide
    • Reflections & Resources on T’shuvah – Free download
    • Moral Dilemmas in the Holocaust: Discussion topics
    • Returning: Glossary of Hebrew terms
  • Blog: Reflections & Musings

Tisha b’Av – Learning from the past

July 20, 2018 by Yael Shahar Leave a Comment

Many in Israel wonder whether we should still mourn on Tisha b’Av, with Jerusalem rebuilt, surrounded by a thriving Jewish state. I would argue that especially now, in the midst of national rebirth, the lessons of Tisha b’Av take on a new urgency. For the past 2,000 years we were not in a position to repeat the mistakes of the past. Now we are.

On running a book club discussion during the Nine Days

August 9, 2016 by Yael Shahar Leave a Comment

Tisha b’Av is an intentionally triggered “national flashback”. Any survivor will tell you that the anniversary of a traumatic event is the time when one is most likely to relive it. Rather than trying to “get over it”, we allow ourselves to acknowledge the loss. We acknowledge that there are some things that we should not just “get over”.

The seeds planted on Tisha b’Av

July 24, 2015 by Ovadya ben Malka 1 Comment

The seeds planted on Tisha b’Av, a poem by Ovadya ben Malka: “A curse and a blessing were laid on us that day. Having lived the curse, can we doubt that blessing will come as well?”

Tisha b’Av: Redemption rooted in tragedy

July 23, 2015 by Yael Shahar 4 Comments

Tisha b’Av is a kind of “Bermuda Triangle in Time” for the Jewish people. Most people know that both the First and the Second Temples were destroyed on that day. That would be enough to qualify this day as a day of misfortune. But what is less known is how far back it goes.

Dazzling… Returning is an extraordinary and challenging book on many levels.
– Philip K. Jason, Washington Independent Review of Books

Intriguing! At times dark and haunting, at times lyrical and introspective, Returning resonates long after “the end”!
– Dan Sofer, author of the Dry Bones Society trilogy

Returning is a compelling, puzzling, remarkably honest story of a Jew’s sins against his people and his tradition, and of his search for forgiveness and restoration.
– Bill Tammeus, Faith Matters

Free Download

Popular Posts

  • Yael Shahar - Home
    Yael Shahar - Home
  • The Tanur shel Akhnai: A tale of two methods
    The Tanur shel Akhnai: A tale of two methods
  • Rabbi Yochanan & Resh Lakish: A lesson in interpretation
    Rabbi Yochanan & Resh Lakish: A lesson in interpretation
  • Book Review: The Disappearance of God by Richard Elliot Friedman
    Book Review: The Disappearance of God by Richard Elliot Friedman
  • Book Review: An Unexpected Afterlife by Dan Sofer
    Book Review: An Unexpected Afterlife by Dan Sofer
  • Yael Shahar - Author bio
    Yael Shahar - Author bio
  • Death & Transcendence – a Jewish perspective
    Death & Transcendence – a Jewish perspective
  • Yael Shahar Blog
    Yael Shahar Blog

Main Topics

  • Book Reviews
  • Featured
  • Guest Posts
  • Halakhic Process
  • Hashkafah & Jewish Thought
  • Havruta with a One-Eyed Cat
  • Memory & History
  • Miscellaneous
  • Parashat HaShavua
  • Poetry
  • Returning
  • T'shuvah & Healing
  • The Jewish Year
  • Writing & Publishing

Connect with me on Facebook

Connect with me on Facebook

Proudly hosted by:

Web Hosting

© 2026 · Yael Shahar · Built by Kasva Press